You are not for everyone. And that's okay.
It's a hard truth, but a freeing one: you won't be everyone's cup of tea.
Some people will find you too loud, too quiet, too much, not enough. Some will simply prefer coffee. That isn't a verdict on your worth. It's just taste.
Trying to be liked by everyone is exhausting, and it waters you down until nobody really gets the real flavour of you. The people who love you for who you actually are can only find you if you stop hiding.
So be tea, if you're tea. The right people will pull up a chair.